you can start by given her hugs and kissing on her neck and ears and whistpering in her ear that you love her very much and then slid one hand down to her butt and hold her for a few minits then see where it get you ok then the next day or so do it again the same way get her use to it and she give in and let you start to feel her up as you kiss on her it will work this way remenber she has not been touch for long time and this make her feel like a women again be for long you have her old tits in your hands